Fri
Mar 12
2010
Pastor Lynn Parsons
Interim Pastor
St. Paul Lutheran Church, Missouri Valley, Iowa
In 2004, my family was told that my mother would soon die.
While the struggle went on for several weeks, each of us siblings and our families began to grieve. Each person grieved at the thought of mom’s passing in different ways. Some were in denial. Others were angry, confused, or in the bargaining cycle of grief.
This type of grief is not unusual for families who are faced with a loved dying. This type of grief is called anticipatory grief. As a chaplain in a nursing home facility, I had seen anticipatory grief many times. As a chaplain gets more acquainted with the dynamics of end-of-life measures, you become more sensitive to grief among the family, staff, and other professionals. What was surprising to me is to experience anticipatory grief in a systemic way.
Rev. Sylvia High Karlsson
Pastor Gail Madson
Pastor Bob Oleson